take the advice from larren and have a good plan for the daily work

when Larren was leaving the office, I have a long talk with her.

she specifically talks with me about the work habits and the things I need to accomplish during the Ph.D course.

Thinking of being a Ph.D in stanford is so exciting, that I would probably like no more than that.

I need to finish more work and done much better to accelerate my Ph.D study progress.

so this is the deal.

take less and less courses, course work is so tedious, auditing something you are really interested into, but don’t waste too much time on this kind of things

 

besides, pay attention to the wonderful life of Stanford University, isn’t it amazing to enjoy your life here??

keep working!!

 

本命年终于要过去了。。

本命年一切太不顺啦。。

总之，之前的事情都过去了，我这个混乱的个体，也终于可以解脱了。。

 

而新的一年，重新审视一下自己，发现自己是如此的，一无所成。。

比上，发现自己什么都不会。

比下，发现自己还挺得瑟。。

这种情况必然要改变

多花点时间在research,多花点时间培养自己的能力

以你现在的水平，没有男生会喜欢你是正常的。。

但是你不能停留于此，

我现在比较有的是成熟大气的性格， 比较不会斤斤计较，

但是这种东西，不是非常的突出，要想让男生喜欢，除了性格上比较舒服以外，还得有一个能吸引他，抓住他的点

我现在缺少的，正是这种点

能够真正吸引男生的气质。。

 

Be realistic is much easier than having a dream

Many people would say that

you need to be realistic, look at how you can really achieve, follow the path of other people.

why?

because being realistic is much easier than having a dream

if you have a dream, you will have many many unknown ..factors in your future life.

you won’t know how the life would be like….you need to be more careful and more hard working than the realistic one, who just achieve normally.

because no one will give a clear and certain answer of what kind of things will happen future in your life, dreams mean difficulty, not achieved by others and mean you need to work extra time and energy to make it happen.

so save your time for the most important things in your life.

have a regular life style and push yourself to some extend

 

you should work.

new quarter, new plan..

today, I officially start the brand new winter quarter,

this quarter, my goal is learn more, practice more and do more stuff.

1 begin to go to the library for study every day, especially during the weekend, in the library, since you can’t have access to the social network, I believe it helps to boost the efficiency.

2 have a regular time schedule, for sleep and practice other things..

3 lower your expectations on everything. people can accomplish things one by one..

4 learn more skills during this quarter.

 

promise yourself to work everyday