stop procrastination to your 30s

recently, I have read a ted talk about young generations are constantly putting off their plan, because nowadays, the youth seems to be endless. People stay in school longer, get married later, have kids and their own home late, so lots of people treat their 20s like the the adolescence, and don’t make any commitment.

exploring as much as possible is a good thing, but wasting your time is another thing. People put off a lot of things not for putting off time for fun, they are doing something more important.

I know tons of people using their 20s not reading, tour around the world, party, casual sex and so on. it is merely procrastination. the result would be , when the deadline comes, you found yourself just wasting your time and energy without accomplish anything.

so to avoid being one of them, I should bear in mind the clear message, I should live the life as if it is the last day of my time, accomplish things, record things, treat yourself quite well and never stop learning.

After reading and reflection so many times,  I find the best way to live a good life and keep motivated is to keep recording what happens in your life and share it on social website, though the world is crazy nowadays,  I need to find my balance,  television is not a good way to spend your time, either the random internet search,

so keeping your own way

 

 

怪我的无知

我这一年,开始探索自己

开始想成为一个人一样的思考,而不是一个简单的机器。

很多体制,比如中国的体制,不是培养人的体制,是创造机器,

希望每个人都一样,接受一样的教育,有一样的目标,一样的追求,

很多人都没有个性

认为的标准都是一样的, 成功的标准一样,有房有车,有情妇

美的标准一样,白,大 眼,尖脸

而且中国也追求这种uniform, 不出格,不当异类,合群,不张扬,是美德,

没有想法,便是好的想法

没有看法,便是好的下属

没有作为,就是好的领导

虽说道家跟儒家,好像是中国一直教育儒家,有为,上进,兼济天下,

但似乎人都是以儒家为手段,以道家为核心,

在物质层面上,都很“上进”

在精神层面上,都很“无为”

要是我想要做成什么事,一定要慢慢来

成大事者,不是一朝一夕的事情,